In the period from eight to twelve years comes the understanding of where and when you can and can not complain. Among boys the same age of secondary school age use the "dirty" little words, guided by the desire to appear mature and integrate into the team of "cool." Psychologists explain the mat at this age, the desire to emulate the authority.
Experts say that families in which parents pay a lot of time communicating with their children and where a trusting relationship is rarely a problem with cursing. Authority for the child are the parents who do not drink mate.
Teens twelve or fourteen years old, tend to use jargon in the main exit of emotions. Since ancient times was considered a method of protection mat. For teens, the world is too hostile. For the abuse they try to hide their weaknesses in order to appear stronger. From the perspective of psychology, aggression is a necessary element of spiritual evolution.
So that the passage of this stage of development - a good sign that your child is developing normally. Children who are not emptied teenage aggression, grow up tyrants and dictators.
The very first recommendation to parents - it's self. Try to never swear words heard in the presence of a child from its birth. Of course, in the future, he "picked up" in the school yard, but it is important to lay a child in your family is not accepted. If the expletive still flew from the mouth of the baby, the first time, try to pretend that you did not hear.
If the child already understands the meaning of the foregoing, it will repeat provocation. If the child used the word once, then he probably just somewhere "picked up" word, and if you do not focus attention on it, it will also "get away".
Experts say that families in which parents pay a lot of time communicating with their children and where a trusting relationship is rarely a problem with cursing. Authority for the child are the parents who do not drink mate.
Teens twelve or fourteen years old, tend to use jargon in the main exit of emotions. Since ancient times was considered a method of protection mat. For teens, the world is too hostile. For the abuse they try to hide their weaknesses in order to appear stronger. From the perspective of psychology, aggression is a necessary element of spiritual evolution.
So that the passage of this stage of development - a good sign that your child is developing normally. Children who are not emptied teenage aggression, grow up tyrants and dictators.
The very first recommendation to parents - it's self. Try to never swear words heard in the presence of a child from its birth. Of course, in the future, he "picked up" in the school yard, but it is important to lay a child in your family is not accepted. If the expletive still flew from the mouth of the baby, the first time, try to pretend that you did not hear.
If the child already understands the meaning of the foregoing, it will repeat provocation. If the child used the word once, then he probably just somewhere "picked up" word, and if you do not focus attention on it, it will also "get away".
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